a saying goes like this:
If you expect nothing from anybody, you’re never disappointed...
i sometimes do wanna teach myself to become more realistic rather than idealistic because sometimes when you expect too much from somebody and he/she ends up not meeting the "expectation" you'll bet that you're the one who's going to feel like crap.
and then i hear myself say, "its your fault. expecting too much from them."
that's it. my thought for the day.